Divorce is a challenging matter as-is, and it is only made worse by the prospect that your private marital affairs are going to become public. Nobody wants their private matters to become inspiration for gossip, and we at the White Oak Law understand that privacy is a top concern for many clients.

Fortunately, there’s a few options worth exploring, primarily those that can be achieved via mediation. This post goes over the ways in which litigation exposes your affairs to the public eye, and how you can rely on mediation to mitigate these risks.

Litigation Airs Your Dirty Laundry for Everyone to See

When privacy is a priority, litigation is never ideal. In the state of California, the public has access to all court filings (barring those that relate to paternity matters). This means that just about anyone can easily dig up the juicy details of your divorce. This is also true for any testimony that might arise in court, regardless of how intimate or scandalous the specifics might be. We always recommend that you avoid litigation at all costs and opt to pursue a resolution via mediation instead.

How Mediation Enables you to Negotiate the Settlement Terms

Mediation carries more than just privacy benefits. It allows you to sit down with your ex and enables you to work towards a common ground. Resolutions reached via mediation are typically mutually-agreeable, cheaper, and more efficient than other types of post-divorce arrangements.

When you sit down with the other party, you give yourself the chance to negotiate the settlement terms down to the nitty-gritty, which is critical when dealing with matters such as child custody, visitation arrangements, and alimony/spousal support. The best part about all of this is that mediation affords you with a level of privacy that court proceedings allow, helping you keep your intimate affairs under wraps.

Consult with an Experienced California Divorce Attorney

Want to learn more about mediation, divorce proceedings, or any other matter relating to family law in California? Remember that you can always call us directly at the White Oak Law to schedule a initial consultation. Call us today to speak with a seasoned California divorce attorney.